There seems to be a general misunderstanding of what constitutes illegal activity within the sex worker community. Everyone understands what prostitution is and how it is illegal except within licensed brothels in several counties in Nevada in the United States. However, there is a misconception that escorting, spending time with someone in exchange for money, but not engaging in sexual activity is completely legal. And then there is the grey area of being a Domme or a Dom, if you’re a man. Most Dommes or Doms, do not engage in penetrative sex, so therefore, there is a misconception that it is not prostitution. However, this really depends on how the laws defining prostitution are drafted in your particular state. Since there is some type of sexual pleasure being paid for by a client, it is quite possible that a local District Attorney or City Attorney, may be able to bring prostitution charges against a Domme or Dom. I would strongly suggest that any Domme or Dom reading this, consult with a local criminal defense attorney to clarify this issue. Better safe than sorry.
As to the issue of escorting without engaging in sexual activity, this may also be illegal in your state, county or city, unless you are a licensed escort working under a licensed escort agency. In Los Angeles, there is a Municipal Code section that allows for the licensing of escort agencies and escorts themselves, through an agency.
These are the actual code sections from the Los Angeles Municipal Code;


In Los Angeles, if someone merely shows up for an appointment with a client, and that appointment ends up being a sting operation, if you are not a licensed escort, that person can still be arrested and prosecuted for escorting without a license, whether they were there to have dinner, give a massage, perform a strip tease or just talk. It makes no difference why the person was there, the mere fact that they were only exchanging their non sexual services and/or time for money is still illegal without a license. I have handled numerous cases in criminal court in Los Angeles, wherein my client got arrested during a sting operation and did not offer to engage in sexual activity for money. They could not be charged with a prostitution related offense, however, they were still charged with escorting without a license, which carries the exact same penalties as prostitution. No pun intended, but they get you coming or going.
There are many cities that allow for legal escorting. For example here is the municipal code for Milwaukee, WI in regards to legal escort businesses;
http://city.milwaukee.gov/ImageLibrary/Groups/ccClerk/Ordinances/Volume-1/CH89.pdf
And in Denver;
And in Phoenix;
https://www.phoenix.gov/cityclerksite/Documents/escortbro.pdf
And Scottsdale, Arizona
http://www.scottsdaleaz.gov/Asset48633.aspx
Again, I would strongly suggest that you contact and consult with a local attorney in your area in regards to escorting laws in your town or city. There may or may not be codes against escorting without a license.
However, here is the interesting aspect to being a legal escort with a license. Since it is a legal and licensed activity, it would perfectly legal to advertise as a legal and licensed escort online even under FOSTA. FOSTA does not affect legal escorting with a license, only illegal prostitution.
For the past three weeks, since FOSTA was passed by the Senate on March 21, 2018, almost the entire discussion has been on how FOSTA will effect online escorting ad sites and online escort sites themselves. Little has been said about how FOSTA will impact camsites, dating sites, apps, good ole’ fashion porn membership sites, free porn tube sites, not to mention sites such as OnlyFans, Sextpanther and the various clip stores. Realize that FOSTA can impact any site at this point. We simply do not know how, if and when the government will begin to enforce FOSTA.
UPDATED: The FOSTA Seminar will be held on April 21st at 11am and continue to approximately 4pm. The Erotic Museum in Las Vegas has been kind enough to donate their space for the seminar (
It has only been three days since FOSTA was signed into law by President Trump. It is far too soon to know what will happen next. However, what is clear is that vast swaths of the Internet have been censored. This is not unique as a technique the government uses to censor the Internet. This has all happened before. Below is a small sample of the fall out of FOSTA. These are all sex worker friendly sites that have closed or has changed parts of their services provided;
Over the past several days the world has seen a fundamental shift in regards to online escorting and prostitution within the United States. With the raid and seizure of Backpage and the passage of FOSTA, it might seem like a war on sex workers has just begun, however, this last battle has been going on for at least the past 8 years.
UPDATED: The FOSTA Seminar will be held on April 21st at 11am and continue to approximately 4pm. The Erotic Museum in Las Vegas has been kind enough to donate their space for the seminar (
While most of the attention of the adult industries (escorting, pornography and camming) have been focused on FOSTA, little attention has been paid to a hastily passed bill known as the the CLOUD Act – Clarifying Overseas Use of Data. This bill was tacked on the spending bill that was passed by Congress and signed by Trump on March 23, 2018. It was never debated by members of Congress, and there were no public hearings held in regards to this law. In all actuality, this law should have been named “How Do We Get Around the Constitution” Act. That is exactly what it enables the US (and foreign governments) to do.
If FOSTA hasn’t been enough to make those in the various sex worker industries collective heads spin, now you can add California Senate Bill 1204 to the mix. This bill, sponsored by Republican Senator Patricia Bates, from ultra-conservative San Diego and Orange County California is aimed at broadening the definition of “pandering” within the State of California.
It appears that FOSTA is being held by the House of Representatives before being presented to President Trump for signature. Why the bill is being held, is anyone’s guess. It could have been held to prevent a pocket veto, or it may be held so that an official signing ceremony can be planned. We have seen these types of ceremonies before, where the bill sponsors and supporters gather around the President as he signs the bill and then presents ceremonial pens to the people gathered. Everyone claps, pats each other on the back and says how great the law being signed is. Trump especially loves these ceremonies.